Saturday, December 19, 2015

Christmas Break

By: Jenifer Metzger

The holiday season is upon us and we are so excited. The next couple of weeks the ladies here at Woman to Woman Ministries will be taking a break to focus on Jesus and our families. We will be back here on the blog on Sunday, January 3, 2016.

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Thursday, December 17, 2015

Possible or Impossible

by Debi Baker


"For with God, nothing is impossible."
Luke 1:37 NKJV



This verse has become so real to me this holiday season! I have had so many irons in the fire the past couple of months. I've had to rely on this verse to help me know that I can do it. God will get me through...everytime!!! There is nothing He will not help me to accomplish...as long as I give it all to Him first.

I love that I can count on God. The world will fail me, friends and family may fail me, but God...He will NEVER fail me. I can do everything I attempt because God is with me.

What a blessing and comfort! I pray this verse comforts you today as it has me all month long!!

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Wednesday, December 16, 2015

An Old Fashioned Christmas

By: Shari A. Miller

Here at Woman to Woman Ministries, we offer a wonderful quarterly Christian magazine.This magazine is filled with hope and encouragement in Jesus; it is written by the staff here at Woman to Woman, as well as gracious guest contributors. The story below was written by me and published in the 2014 winter issue of our magazine, I wanted to share it with you and give you a taste of what you can find in our magazine. It's a very special story to me, as it is loosely based upon the story of my sweet mama, Mary Ann, who was born on Christmas day. I hope you enjoy the story of,  An Old Fashioned Christmas.

This magazine would make the perfect Christmas gift for that special someone in your life. If you would like to order a yearly subscription of Woman to Woman Magazine, please take a moment to stop by our blog for more information.




Emily and Daniel loved to go to their Grandma Mary Ann’s house and this day was no exception. They were especially excited to see her today, because they were going to help decorate her Christmas tree. Their mom dropped them off at Grandma’s early that morning. They hurriedly shut the car doors and waved good bye to their mom as she drove out of site.

They ran into the house and greeted their grandma with a great big hug and rushed downstairs to bring up her Christmas decorations. They set up the tree and fluffed out the branches exactly to their grandmother’s approval. Just as Emily started taking out the Christmas ornaments Daniel looked outside the sliding glass window and yelled in delight, “Look it’s snowing!! It’s snowing!! What a perfect day to be decorating your tree grandma!”

The sparkling twinkle lights were hung on the tree and then the garland. One by one they placed the glass ornaments on her tree, and smiled in delight. They knew these ornaments were very special to their grandmother, because they belonged to her mother, so they made sure to handle them with extra care. The three of them stood back to admire their work. Grandma in approval said, “Why, it’s the prettiest tree I’ve ever seen.”

Grandma told them to sit at the kitchen table while she made some hot coco for them. They gathered round and drank the delectable chocolate that warmed them to their very core. The children asked their grandma to tell them her favorite Christmas story, the one they never got tired of hearing, the one that happened a very long time. Grandma willingly obliged and began to tell the story of, An Old Fashioned Christmas, the same one that her mother told her so many years before.

In 1931 the Peaster family lived on a wheat farm in Ingalls, Kansas. The house they lived in was small and cozy, just right for Rueben and Irene, and their four children, Ruby, Billy, Helen, and Betty. It was almost Christmas time and the children were getting excited for Santa to come.

Winter had been especially harsh for all in their small farming community. The glistening white snow seemed to fall without stopping, causing drifts to be as high as barns in some places, making travel especially difficult. When the snow wasn’t falling the temperatures dropped to a bitter cold, making outside chores especially challenging for the men in the families to complete.

Rueben and Irene sat at their kitchen late one night discussing what they would do for Christmas that year. Money was especially tight due to the poor wheat crop the summer before. The blowing dust and the scorching heat during the summer months made it next to impossible to bring in good crops.
Reuben sighed in frustration as he spoke to his lovely wife Irene, “I’m sorry dear, but it looks like this Christmas will be slim pickens for our children. We just don’t have enough money to buy Christmas presents.” Irene gently grasped her husband’s hand and said, “Rueben the children will be just fine. Please don’t worry about them. We all know that the true meaning of Christmas is more than giving gifts to one another. It’s about celebrating our Savior’s birth.” Reuben gently patted his wife’s pregnant belly and said, “You’re always right my dear. We better get you off to bed, that yougen you’re taken care of is about ready to come any day now.”

Christmas Eve arrived and the house was bustling with activity. Billy was helping his father set up the Christmas tree and mom and the girls were busy sorting through the decorations. Once the tree was decorated the whole family admired it’s beauty as they sat round the living room. Just then, Irene felt a sharp pain shooting through her stomach. She knew it was time and told Reuben to go fetch the doctor.

The children were so excited for what was to come; they knew that soon they would have a brand new baby brother or sister. They quickly went to bed and were so eager with anticipation they could hardly sleep. It was early Christmas morn when Rueben arrived with the doctor. The doctor quickly went in to help Irene deliver the baby.

Reuben paced back and forth in front of the tree, just waiting and praying for his wife and child. The children woke and quickly ran into the living room, talking a mile a minute wanting to know if their baby brother or sister had arrived yet. When they heard their mother cry out in anguish from their parent’s room, little Betty ran straight into her father’s arms, and started crying from fear. Reuben stroked Betty’s hair and told her, “Don’t cry sweetie everything is going to be alright. God is taking care of your mama.”

Reuben shut the French doors to the living room, and walked back over to his little family. As he looked at them he cleared his throat, and smiled big at his children. “I think some of you have forgotten what day it is,” he said with a chuckle. The children screamed with delight and in unison they all said, “Christmas! It’s Christmas!” They ran over to their stockings hung by the fireplace and removed them with great care. One by one they removed the precious gifts they found, a candy cane, an orange, a new pair of mittens, and a brand new five scent piece. The children squealed in happiness because of their new treasures.

However, when they looked under the tree, their smiles soon faded as there were no presents to be found. “What happened,” cried little Helen, “Did Santa forget us this year?” No my child said Reuben. “We will all be getting a present very soon, we must be patient. Before this present arrives we must remember something very important, Christmas is about more than getting presents under the tree, it’s about celebrating Jesus’ birth.”

At that moment, he reached for the family Bible on the coffee table and opened it up to a story that seemed very fitting for this Christmas day, with a voice that resonated loud and clear he began to read the story of Jesus’ birth.

“And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night. An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord. This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.” Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying, “Glory to God in the highest heaven, and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.” When the angels had left them and gone into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let’s go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about.” So they hurried off and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby, who was lying in the manger. When they had seen him, they spread the word concerning what had been told them about this child, and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds said to them. But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart. The shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all the things they had heard and seen, which were just as they had been told.” Luke 2:8-20 (NIV)
“And that my children, is what Christmas is all about, the birth of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.” As soon as Reuben spoke those words the loud cry of a newborn baby rang throughout the house. “It’s baby Jesus!” cried Betty. “No it’s not baby Jesus silly, said Ruby. “It’s mama! She had her baby!” The children leapt up in excitement and begged to go see their mother. “Just a moment children, let me go check on your mother children,” said father.
Reuben motioned for the children to come in and they quietly walked into the bedroom one by one and sat at her bedside. Lying next to their mama was a newborn baby wrapped in a blanket and cooing ever so gently.  “Children, I’d like you to meet your sister, Mary Ann,” said mother. Rueben carefully passed around baby Mary Ann, so each child would have a turn holding her. “She’s my dolly,” said Helen. “You were right, daddy. We did get our Christmas present after all,” said Billy. “Indeed we did,” said mama. “Indeed we did,” said Reuben with a smile.
“And that,” said Grandma Mary Ann, “Is the story of, An Old Fashioned Christmas. My family didn’t have a lot of money to give in the way of presents, but they had love and devotion for one another, and especially for Christ.”
“I just loved your story,” said Daniel. “Me too, every time I hear it I can just imagine them passing you around to your brother and sisters grandma,” said Emily. “I wish I could go back in time and be there on that special day. I would have loved to seen you as a little baby. Thank you for reminding us that Christmas is more than presents and Santa. It’s about Jesus coming to earth as a new born baby, to one day die on the cross and save us from our sins,” said Daniel.
“Indeed,” said grandma. “That really is what Christmas is all about.”





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Tuesday, December 15, 2015

Peppermint Candy Cane Cookies


Recipe courtesy of SelfProclaimedFoodie.com

Ingredients:

  • 2 1/4 cups all purpose flour
  • 1/2 teaspoon kosher salt
  • 1 cup unsalted butter, room temperature (2 sticks)
  • 3/4 cup granulated sugar
  • 1/2 cup powdered sugar
  • 2 large egg yolks
  • 2 teaspoons peppermint extract
  • 1 teaspoon vanilla extract
  • 12 drops red food coloring
  • 1/2 cup decorating sugar (red, white, your choice but large crystals work best)

Monday, December 14, 2015

How To Have An Open Marriage

By: Jenifer Metzger

It is becoming all to common for married couples to have open marriages. If you are not sure what an that is, let me share. An open marriage is when the husband and wife agree that each may have s*xual relationships with other people. The couple may set up rules about when this can happen, or how many partners they can have, etc. Or it may be just more of a go with the flow kind of thing. But the point is, they are not physically committed to just one another.

I want an open marriage.

But not that kind.



I want an open marriage that honors God. A marriage that shows respects each person and honors the vows we took so many years ago.

How can we have this open marriage?

Sunday, December 13, 2015

God with us...




Isaiah the prophet foretold of the coming Messiah sent to this earth as the once and for all perfect sacrifice for sin.  He said that He would be Emmanuel, God with us.  Isn't that powerful?  What other god of all the religions this world has to offer wants to be with his people in loving relationship? I'm so thankful that we have a God Who is lovingly, faithfully with us!

Psalm 46:11 says that He is with us as a stronghold and a refuge that we can always go to.  I have run to Him as my refuge more times than I can count over my lifetime, and He has always been a strong and sure shelter and fortress for me.

Friday, December 11, 2015

Fear Factor

If fear didn't hold you back, what would you do? Change your career path, speak in front of a group of people, go on a missions trip, share the gospel with a co-worker? If you are like me, there have been moments in your life where fear has held you back from doing something; whether big or small. Many times we don't take that step because we are afraid of failing or perhaps we are afraid of what people will think. What if we speak in front of a large crowd and forget what we were going to say?What if we try to share the gospel with someone and they ask a question that we can't answer? What if we go on that missions trip; who would watch the kids, where would the money come from, how could I take that long off of work?  So we just sit and don't do anything. We let the "what if's" hold us back?


Thursday, December 10, 2015

Back to the Basics...

by Debi Baker


"Train up a child in the way he should go,
And when he is old he will not depart from it."
Proverbs 6:22 NKJV



I had a conversation with my associate pastor, who is also my children's pastor, last night concerning 'Bible stories.' It is a sad state of the church when our children don't know the basic Bible stories like Noah's Ark; Joseph's Coat of Many Colors; Jonah and so many more. It seems that the church has morphed beyond these wonderful basic stories and has become more 'politically correct' in the preaching/teaching.



Wednesday, December 9, 2015

What Christmas is All About

By: Shari A. Miller

"For a child will be born to us, a son will be given to us; And the government will rest on His shoulders; And His name will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Eternal Father, Prince of Peace." ~ Isaiah 9:6

The year was 1992, my husband and I, were both young and in love and didn't have a care in the world. When Christmas time rolled around we had very little money and no ornaments to put on our tree, so we got creative and made them. We cut out pictures from Christmas wrapping paper and glued them to cardboard, then we painted them with clear fingernail polish, and hung them with gold thread.



Tuesday, December 8, 2015

Chicken and Black Bean Soup

By : Melissa Baker



Recipe courtesy of TasteOfHome.com


Ingredients

  • 1/2 pound boneless skinless chicken breasts, cut into 1-inch cubes
  • 2 cans (14-1/2 ounces each) reduced-sodium chicken broth, divided
  • 2 cups frozen corn
  • 1 can (15 ounces) black beans, rinsed and drained
  • 1 can (10 ounces) diced tomatoes and green chilies, undrained
  • 1 jalapeno pepper, seeded and chopped
  • 2 tablespoons minced fresh cilantro
  • 3 teaspoons chili powder
  • 1/2 teaspoon ground cumin
  • 1 tablespoon cornstarch
  • 18 tortilla chips
  • Shredded reduced-fat Mexican cheese blend, optional

Monday, December 7, 2015

To the Hurting Wife

By: Jenifer Metzger

To the wife whose husband hasn't told her she's beautiful in a while,

Sweet friend, you are beautiful. So beautiful. Do you know how I know this? Because you were made in the image of God.

So God created man in His own image;
in the image of God He created him;
male and female He created them.
Genesis 1:27


Every single thing about you is marvelous. You are gorgeous, stunning, lovely, you are His.

Sunday, December 6, 2015

Peace...



Peace, if there's one quality we long for at Christmastime, it's peace.  A mind and heart at peace is a wonderful thing.  Yet, peace can seem illusive under the best of circumstances.  Add the current events of our sin twisted world to the mix, and peace can seem impossible.  There's a lot of stuff to be fearful about. 

Saturday, December 5, 2015

Let Your Heart Be Light

by Robin McKay


The songs words sing...


“Have yourself a merry little Christmas. Let your heart be light.
From now on our troubles will be out of sight.” 


Really?!

That ain’t gonna happen folks—troubles don't disappear by singing them away.

But our hearts truly can be lightened. Not only at Christmastime, but every day and every turn of the page of every chapter of our story.


Allow the weight of sin and self condemnation to be lifted. (Hebrews 12:1)

Jesus came that we may have life abundant. (John 10:10)

Don’t allow the weights of the world to rob you of your inheritance! (Romans 8:17)

Live in joy out of the joy of the Lord. (Nehemiah 8:10)

Let His living waters rush over you in every corner of your heart and mind. (John 4:14)

Lean not on your own understanding and short-sighted perceptions. (Proverbs 3:5)

Believe Him—Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ! (Acts 16:31)

Believe all His promises and goodness is available—stretched out, open-handed—to you! (2 Peter 1:3, 4)

Others may turn to the world’s way of doing things. (Jeremiah 15:19)

But stay strong in the Lord, strengthened by His might. (Ephesians 6:10)

Seek first the Kingdom of God and trust that your needs will be met. (Matthew 6:33)


Friday, December 4, 2015

The Technology Trap

Probably all of us would agree that technology is an amazing thing, without it we wouldn't have some of the things that we enjoy the most. But when does too much technology become detrimental? Everywhere you look kids are playing on phones, iPads, computers, watching tv, etc. My 3 year old can easily navigate my iPhone 6, something that I don't think is too uncommon anymore. Not only kids, but what about us as adults? How often are we glued to the tv or glued to our phones? How many times do our children have to say our names before we look up? How many times do they have to tug on our shirt? And what does that teach our children about their importance; if mommy and daddy are so busy looking at their screens that they have to do something drastic to get our attention? It tells them that whatever game we are playing, whatever we are looking at on Facebook, whatever text we are sending; is more important than them. Now I'm not trying to be dramatic; I dont see anything wrong with any of the above mentioned devices, IF they are used in moderation and they don't interfere with things that are most important.


Thursday, December 3, 2015

Wonderful, Mighty, Everlasting...

by Debi Baker

"For unto us a Child is born,
Unto us a Son is given;
And the government will be upon His shoulder.
And His name will be called
Wonderful, Counselor, Mighty God,
Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace."
Isaiah 9:6 NKJV



Wednesday, December 2, 2015

Twenty Five Ways to be the Hands and Feet of Jesus at Christmas

By: Shari A. Miller

This past Monday, on my personal blog, Shari A. Miller, Living to Leave a Legacy, a shared a post about, The Two Most Important Things at Christmas. One of the things I talked about was making sure that Christ was the true meaning of Christmas. This season, instead of thinking of self, let's step back and take a look at ways we can help others during this holiday season. Below, you will find a list of twenty five ways to be the hands and feet of Jesus at Christmas.