Friday, September 19, 2014

Becoming A Praying Family Series Part 2

Becoming A Praying Family Series Part 2:
Encouraging Your Man to Lead Spiritually

Today our focus is turned to our husbands.  Let me present my disclaimer from the start.  I am fully aware that households are made up of different circumstances.  It may be that you are a single mom or perhaps your spouse is an unbeliever.  In such cases, I believe God can give you the strength to be the spiritual leader in your home just as well as any other household.  But, today our focus is on our husbands and their role in becoming a praying family.

I Timothy 3:1-5

The saying is trustworthy: If anyone aspires to the office of overseer, he desires a noble task. Therefore an overseer must be above reproach, the husband of one wife,[b]sober-minded, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, not a drunkard, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money. He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive, for if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God's church?

God has ordained our husbands to be the spiritual leader of our household. This includes leading the family in the way of prayer.   Although we can’t make our husbands take that responsibility to be the spiritual leader of their home, nor force them to pray with or over their family,  there is much we can do to be an influence and lead them in that direction.  Here are two main keys to seeing your spouse become the spiritual influence that you want in your household.

Number 1:  Be submissive and subject yourself to his leadership.

It is our responsibility as their wives to follow our husband’s lead.  I know this is a hard one for women in our culture to gulp down, but the fact still remains, THIS is how we can be influencers to our husband!

I Peter 3:1  
 Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives.

In my own journey, this has been incredibly difficult to learn to do.  I have always been the take charge kind of gal.  It was not until very recently that I learned I need to allow my husband to make decisions concerning ME and my family!  I hadn't noticed how “silent” my husband had become in making decisions for our family, only to discover that he had “given up” because I never “listened” to him anyway.  Now, I work really hard to bring even the smallest decision (especially spiritual in nature) to him first.  I will then ask my husband to pray over me and that God would show both of us what is the right decision to make.  Then I will ask him.  If he has a direction he thinks we should take, I choose that direction without an argument.  I have found, since I have made this conscious effort to let him lead, he has been more willing to be a part of leading us as a family.

Number 2:  Pray For Your Husband to Be that Role of Spiritual Leader

I believe there is no greater thing that you can do for your husband than to pray for him!  He needs to be lifted up in prayer each and every day!  One of my favorite go-to books is The Power Of A Praying Wife by Stormie O Martian
This book is jam-packed with prayers that get to the heart of the matter.  It gets very specific on what areas to pray concerning your husband and scriptures to go along with those prayers.  Pray that your husband will take on his call to lead his household in the ways of the Lord.  Pray that he will become the prayer warrior that God has called us all to be! 

I also found this prayer to be very helpful in guiding me to pray for my husband to be the spiritual leader God wants him to be.

Dear God,
Please guide our husbands to be the true, Godly leader that you want them to become.  So many families today are in crisis, a problem that may well be solved by men taking their rightful role as the leader of their family.  Please help them to be good examples to their children, especially their sons.
And, God, please help us, as their wives, to allow our husbands to lead…to provide encouragement, to avoid thwarting their initiatives, to make room for our men to bloom as the leaders they were meant to be.
Please help us to remember to pray daily to the Holy Ghost for guidance for our husbands to lead throughout their day.

Here are some prayer cards that can be printed out as reminders to pray for our husbands every day!  Be blessed as your family grows closer through the power of prayer.

Thursday, September 18, 2014

Pray, Believe, Receive

by:  Debi Baker

"24 you can pray for anything, and if you
believe that you've received it, it will be yours."

Mark 11:24 NLT

This is one of the verses I used on a recent Wednesday night.  I've read it thousands of times but God, being the timely God that He is, opened my eyes to it during that service.  Jesus is speaking...telling us that we can pray for anything...the salvation of a loved one, a restful night's sleep, etc...and if we will believe that we have it...IT WILL BE OURS!!!  Sweet ladies, that's like a free pass...God is just waiting for us to pray our prayers, believe them and call them as He can bless us!

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We are starting a revival next week and this verse is one that I am clinging to for many salvations and life changing events!!!  Now, don't take the verse too far.  We need to be diligent and faithful to pray the right kinds of things.  In other words, don't go praying to be a millionaire, believe that you are and expect God to answer.  Perhaps He would, but I believe that these kinds of prayers are to be the prayers of God's people for the benefit of all and not for 'me.'  

More than life itself, I want my mama to be pain free!  That wonderful woman has had pain every single day of her life since 1969.  Can you imagine never being pain free!  I am praying for pain free days for her.  I believe that she will call me one afternoon and say, 'Guess what?  I haven't had any pain all day!!'  So I know, because Jesus has said it is so, that it will happen.  And I can't wait for that day!  There are many other things in my life that I am praying for and believing they are done...even calling them as done.  One thing God can NOT do is lie, so if He said it is so...IT IS SO!!!

Today, pray your prayers a little differently.  Pray with a sense of completion.  Pray and believe it is done.  And when you are done...confess that it is so.  Even when you don't see the it done and don't go back to 'wishing' for it.  Be confident that God has heard and answered!!

Have a blessed, prayer answered day!!

Wednesday, September 17, 2014

Don't Waste Any More Time

By: Shari A. Miller

God and I had a little talk with the enemy of lies today.

Guess what we told him?

We told him, "To get out and don't waste any more of my time!"

I finally feel like I am at a point in my life where I finally get it, a point where I have learned an important lesson. One that I have preached far to often, and never quite grasped.

Worry wastes time. It steels us of our todays,  and causes us to lose sleep over our tomorrows. It accomplishes nothing but stress, heartache and sorrow.

"But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." Matthew 6:33-34

The clock ticks away with it's never ending rhythm, and the days on the calender fly by so fast. 

Friends......are you with me? Together, lets stop this never ending cycle.

Let's turn in over to the Father. No take backs. Let's just leave it with him.

He's in charge. We are not. 

It's time to put our days to good use, by using them the way he intended. To live a life with whole abandonment to what was, as we put our trust in him. It's time to fill our days with purpose and passion as we live them completely sold out for the King.

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight." Proverbs 3:5-6

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It is time for our Woman to Woman Word Filled Wednesday Link Up. We desire to connect women of God with one another and encourage each other in Christ. So grab a cup of coffee, sit back and visit a few blogs. Be encouraged and share your own stories in their comments.

Use the hashtag #w2wwordfilledwednesday! 

Three rules to this link up:
1. Must be a {Christian} faith post.
2. You must link back to W2W somewhere in your post.
3. You must visit and comment on at least one other blog in the link up.

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Tuesday, September 16, 2014

Olive Garden Grilled Chicken and Alfredo Sauce

This recipe is courtesy of
By: Melissa Baker

I absolutely LOVE Olive Garden! My favorite meal is the grilled chicken alfredo.  I was thrilled when I found this recipe. I can't wait to try it. Enjoy this classic dish from the Olive Garden with this "copy cat" recipe.


 •2 chicken breasts
•salt and pepper
•2 teaspoon olive oil
•8 ounces dry pasta
•2 cups heavy cream
•1/2 cup (1 stick) butter
•1/2 to 3/4 cup grated Parmesan cheese
•1/2 teaspoon garlic powder (optional)


Preheat your grill to medium-high heat. Brush with oil and then season the chicken breasts with salt and pepper. Grill 5 to 7 minutes on the first side and then flip the chicken over and grill for another 3 to 4 minutes, or until cooked through.

Cook pasta according to package directions.

Prepare the Alfredo sauce by combining the cream and butter in a saucepan over medium-high heat. Do not let the mixture come to a boil, but heat until small bubbles begin to form. Add the Parmesan cheese and whisk quickly. Add the garlic powder and continue to whisk. The sauce will thicken after a minute or two.

Cut the chicken breasts into strips. Serve by placing half the pasta on each plate, then topping it with sauce and a sliced chicken breast.

Monday, September 15, 2014

When He Falls

There is something you need to know: your husband will fall. At some point, at multiple points, in your marriage, your husband will mess up. He will do something wrong. He will goof up, fall back to a bad habit, fall to temptation, he will fail.

We are human, failure will come.

The thing is, when he does fall, the very last thing he needs is his wife pointing it out. He doesn't need her standing over him mocking him, putting him down, telling him the famous I-told-you-so, or dragging him through the dirt. Likely, he already feels the pain of his mistake.

What does he need? He needs for his wife to help him back up.

Be on the same page. #marriage #wife #husband

Be there for him. Let him lean on you. Make sure he knows you are still there for him. Love him. And most importantly, pray for him.

No matter what his failure, commit to helping him back up.