Keep an Attitude of Gratitude on Thanksgiving

By: Jenifer Metzger

Enter His gates with thanksgiving

and His courts with praise.

Give thanks to Him and bless His name.

Psalm 100:4

Tomorrow we gather together with loved ones to enjoy fellowship and feast. There will be love and laughter. Deep conversations and reminiscing. Football games and parades. Delicious food and desserts. We will have so much to be thankful for.

There will also be messes to clean up, empty chairs where loved ones once sat, and possibly even tension from a strained relationship. So how can we navigate the holiday and keep an attitude of gratitude even during the messes and pain?

Keep your eyes firmly fixed on God. Even though the holiday brings so much busyness, be purposeful to start your day with Jesus. Open your Bible and enter into His gates with thanksgiving and His courts with praise. Don't let your day fully start until you've spent time with the Father.

Pause throughout the day to give thanks. When you look over and see Grandma sitting in her chair watching the little ones play, whisper thanks to God for her. When you see the guys head outside for a game of catch, give thanks for fun and physical ability to play. When the kids are playing and get a little loud, thank the Lord for youth and laughter. When you sit down to enjoy your meal, give thanks for God's provisions. And when you see the sink full of dishes, thank God for the loved ones you were blessed to share a table with.

Remember the good times. I lost three of my grandparents right around the holidays, my grandfather even moved to heaven on Christmas morning. So the holidays can be difficult and that sense of loss is always there. When those waves of grief come -whether from the loss of a loved one, broken relationship, loss of a job, or loss of a dream- remember the good times. Remember the laughter and love. Remember the blessing.

Be kind. It's no surprise that we don't always see eye to eye with everyone. Sometimes it's political. Sometimes it's in how we raise our children. Sometimes it's with a loved one who isn't a believer. Whatever your situation is, show kindness. Don't let differences cause discord. Be kind. Show love. And when necessary, gently agree to disagree and change the topic.

While the holidays are busy and can sometimes bring a degree of stress, they are also a special time to spend with those we love. Keep your eyes firmly fixed on Jesus, give thanks for all the things big and small, and you'll have an attitude of gratitude.

Discussion:
1. What is your favorite Thanksgiving tradition?
2. How do you navigate difficult moments of the holiday?