Fruits of the Spirit Series: Patience

 By: Rebekah Hargraves

Photo courtesy of: Osama Saeed

"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience...." 

~Galatians 5:22

As we return again this week to our ongoing series on the fruits of the Spirit, the timing of  patience being our fruit to study today is not lost on me. I see the Lord in it because I don't know about you, but I could certainly use some patience right about now! 

Some of you may know that I have an 8 month old baby at the time of this writing, but what you may not know is just what a struggle sleep has been for her the past several months. Not only that, but just when I think we have made a breakthrough in being able to get her to sleep for several hours in a row at night, she randomly has a night like she did just last night where she is up every hour and unpredictable as to how easy or quick it'll be to get her back to sleep.

And while, when I was pregnant, I naively assumed, because she was our miracle baby who had come at the end of a years-long struggle of secondary infertility, that I would never get impatient or frustrated with her, that simply is not the case. I wish I could say it was. But with my sin nature being what it is, I suppose I should have known better. I'm a sinner just like everyone else, and when dealing with sleep deprivation at 3am with no end in sight, patience can often be the last thing I have - if I'm operating in my own strength, that is.

Because that is the reality we have seen over and over throughout the first weeks of this series, right? We have revisited this important topic week after week, that what we are studying right now are the fruits of the Spirit, meaning that He is the One Who cultivates them in us, and we only have them as we walk by His Spirit. 

So, on my own, in my flesh, at 3am when my 8 month old is up yet again? Instant impatience can  easily kick in. 

But when I am operating in the Spirit? He enables me to have patience that is humanly impossible. Praise God for that! 

One thing that I find interesting is that many translations of Galatians 5:22 do not actually use the word "patience". They instead use the word "long-suffering". My sleep-deprived self finds that both fascinating as well as rather convicting, if I'm being honest! Because I feel like I am suffering when I am operating on 3 or 4 hours of sleep. But that is exactly what I am called to - to be long-suffering.

Paul uses the verb version of the same Greek word again in 1 Corinthians 13:4, when describing what love is - "Love is patient" or "love suffers long", depending on your translation.

This Greek word is "makrothymeō", the definition of which is as follows:

1. to be of a long spirit, not to lose heart

   1. to persevere patiently and bravely in enduring misfortunes and troubles

   2. to be patient in bearing the offenses and injuries of others

      1. to be mild and slow in avenging

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   3. to be longsuffering, slow to anger, slow to punish

      
      

      
      

      
      

      This is all rather convicting to me, coming on the heels of how I behaved last night when being repeatedly awakened. I did not persevere patiently, was not slow to anger and frustration, and did not patiently bear the repeated awakenings. But this reminder about this fruit of the Spirit is important for me to hear myself, for this long-suffering patience is what I am called to as a Christ-follower. It is not humanly possible, but with Christ, all things are possible. I can't conjure it up on my own, but as I commit to walking by the Spirit and leading and relying on Him, I will begin to see this fruit of patience come through in my daily living more and more - and more than I never thought possible! 

      
      

      
      

      And the same encouraging truth will be reality for you, as well, dear sister! Lean on Him, and He will help you through. 

      
      

      
      

      
      

      
      

      
      

      
      

Reflection Questions:

1) In what area of your life are you sorely in need of patience?

2) What stands out to you about today's devotional?

3) How can it encourage your heart to know that your becoming a more patient person is not reliant upon you yourself? Will you make it your aim to walk by the Spirit and seek His help in this area?

They're Worth More

 By: Joanne Viola

 

The photos are already appearing as kids of varied ages resume their school routines. Children may be starting daycare, grammar school, middle school, high school, or college.

The age or year of school makes no difference as mothers begin to worry about the school year ahead, and the transition it would bring.

Dropping a child off to their first year of college is equally as daunting as when you dropped them off to their first day of day care or kindergarten.

The unknowns can be terrifying. It brings to mind this often shared thought:

“Never be afraid to trust an unknown future to a known God.”
(Corrie ten Boom)

“Worry” as defined by dictionary.com –> “to torment oneself with or suffer from disturbing thoughts” (emphasis mine).

We do it to ourselves. And most of what we worry about never comes to be, or turns out the way we expected.

So maybe what we need to do is turn to our known God. Better yet, return to what we know about God.

We need to remember Him. Remember His faithfulness, His tender care, and the way He has guided and brought you thus far. Remember His love for our children is great. Remember He has a plan for their lives.

We need to remember our children are of great worth to our heavenly Father.

Jesus in talking to the crowds exhorted the people to not be worried about their life. He told them to look at the birds whom their heavenly Father feeds and cares for.

Then Jesus asks this powerful question:

“Are you not worth more than they?” 
(Matthew 6:26b, NASB)

Jesus then reminds the crowd:

“And who of you by being worried can add a single hour to his life?”
 (verse 27, NASB)

All our worrying won’t change a thing. The only result of worrying is it successfully distracts us from the One who cares for us.

Jesus not only tells us not to worry but He then tells us why we should not worry … “Your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things” (verse 32b). Jesus knows our needs. He tells us not to worry because our heavenly Father has them covered.

As our kids return to school,
let’s remember
to trust this unknown future to Him.

 

 

Reflection: 
Does the start of another school year fill your thoughts with worry or fear? What do you need to do to stay focused on God and thus, worry less?

 

Image by Gerd Altmann from Pixabay

 

 

 

Learning to Trust

 By: Grace Metzger 

Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
 And lean not on your own understanding.
‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭3‬:‭5‬ ‭NKJV‬‬

My coworker and I like to joke about how I’m such a distrustful person. At my job it’s very easy to get in trouble or even fired from a single mistake. I’ve seen it happen plenty of times in the past so I’ve become extremely cautious over everything I do.  However this joke started getting to my head, have I really become so independent that I don’t trust anyone? Has this happened in my relationship with God?

Whenever I am afraid,
 I will trust in You.
Psalms‬ ‭56‬:‭3‬ ‭NKJV‬‬

I’ve thought about my current situation, the troubles I’m experiencing in my life right now. Was I trusting God through this? Was I believing that He had control over it? Sadly, I don’t think I can confidently say that I had total trust in God. Instead, I was allowing my anxiety to control my thoughts. 

Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication,
 with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God.
‭‭Philippians‬ ‭4‬:‭6‬ ‭NKJV‬‬

As I was thinking about this, I thought about this verse in Philippians. I remember learning this verse as a child and repeating it over and over again whenever my anxiety rose. I love this verse so much because shows that God understands us. He knows that we have a habit of allowing anxiety to control us so He used His word to give us instructions on how to trust Him. 

We need to give it to Him in prayer. When we pray, we are relinquishing control and fears over our problems and giving them to God. I’ve noticed a change when I pray over the storms in my life and stop thinking about it. When fear tries to take control I remind myself I already gave it to God. It’s no longer mine to fear, if it’s not my problem then why do I worry over it? 

Discussion Questions: What helps you when you're lacking in trust and faith?

Back to School Prayer

By: Jenifer Metzger

All over the world students and faculty will be heading back to school in the coming days. This year my oldest grandchild begins school and I am so excited for him!

I'd like to invite you to join me in praying over children, teens, and young adults students, as well as all those who work in the school system in any capacity and homeschool families.

Dear Heavenly Father,

We thank you for those headed back to school. Our children heading to elementary school, preteens heading to middle school, teens heading to high school, young adults heading off to college, those who work in the school system, and homeschool families. They all matter and we are thankful for each and every one.

We ask You right now for your hedge of protection to be around all of them. Keep Your guardian angels encamped around them and allow no harm to come to them. Stop any plans the enemy has for harm. Protect them physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.

I pray, Lord, for students of all ages. As they learn, help them to retain. When things get hard, give them the strength and desire to press on. Let this be a successful year as they learn and grow.

I pray for those who work in the schools. As they prepare lessons, organize events, clean buildings, or whatever they may be called to do, give them wisdom. Help them to be gentle and patient with those they are teaching or guiding. Allow them to get good sleep at night and wake each morning ready for a new day.

Lord, help all those heading into the schools -children and adults alike- to be includers. Help them to reach out to the friendless and be a friend. Help them to stand up for the one who is different. Help them to always have a smile ready to show and a kind word ready to speak.

I pray for the homeschool mamas who work just as hard as those in the brick and mortar buildings. As they care for their families and homes, do the chores, and teach their children, strengthen them. Sustain them. Help them to find their support village and be a support for others.

And last, we pray for the believers heading to school. Help them to boldly stand up for You. Unashamed and ready to share the Gospel of Jesus. Help them not to waiver in their faith but to stand with feet firmly planted in You.

We pray all of this in Jesus name, amen.

Fruits of the Spirit Series: Peace

 By: Rebekah Hargraves

Photo Courtesy of: Sunguk Kim

"But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace...."

~Galatians 5:22a

In our series on the fruits of the Spirit, we come now to the fruit of peace. 

This is one of the fruits that can sometimes seem especially hard to possess in times like these when there seems to be an exceptional lack of peace everywhere we turn. From national strife between countries to personal discord between people who think differently or live differently from one another, peace can oftentimes feel like the last thing we could ever hope to find or possess.

But, as with the other fruits we are studying throughout this series together, that is the whole point, isn't it? So often is seems impossible to possess or to cultivate these fruits because, humanly speaking, it is! They are the fruits of the Spirit, not of us, and He is the One Who must cultivate them in us as we walk with Him.

One of my husband's favorite hymns is "It is Well with my Soul", a hymn that has accompanied him especially throughout his military career, from the first hard days of basic training to the challenging days of a deployment during Covid. If you aren't familiar with the story behind the hymn, it is an incredibly powerful one. The hymn-writer, Horatio Spafford, lost his four daughters in 1873 when the ship they were sailing on with their mother sank. Their mother alone survived, and when Horatio traveled to meet with his grieving wife after the accident, he penned the hymn's lyrics right as he was passing near the site of the tragedy.

Can you imagine?

I used to not be able to. How could he say it was well with his soul? As a mother, I couldn't fathom it. Except for this fact: saying it is well with your soul is not the same as saying it is well with your circumstances. It is not the same as saying that all is going well in your life, that your life is free from tragedy, hardship, and pain. It is saying that all is well with your soul - it is saying that you have an inner peace and calmness of spirit because you know that your soul is eternally safe and cared for by your Savior and heaven is what is awaiting you. 

And that is how we can have peace no matter what this life or this culture or this time in history throw at us. Which brings me to one of my favorite passages of Scripture, Philippians 4:6-7:

"Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus." 

Paul readily admits here that this kind of peace defies and surpasses all human understanding. Humanly, it just doesn't make sense. But that is because it is a supernatural peace from a supernatural God. 

We see this clearly in the definition of the Greek word that is translated as "peace" in both Galatians 5 and Philippians 4. It is the Greek word, eirēnē, a couple of the definitions of which are as follows:

• security, safety, prosperity, felicity
• the tranquil state of a soul assured of its salvation through Christ, and so fearing nothing from God and content with its earthly lot, of whatsoever sort that is
• peace, quietness, rest

Isn't that beautiful? Our inheritance as daughters of God, as followers of Christ, is that we get to experience a deep-seated inner quietness, rest, peace, harmony, and felicity that can be ours no matter what, for it defies human logic. No matter what may come our way, no matter what our lot in life, the peace of the Spirit is ours for the taking, for it is eternally well with our souls.

Reflection Questions:

1)  What stood out to you from today's study?

2) In what are of your life are you lacking peace right now? How can you walk by the Spirit in that area and watch Him cultivate peace in your life?

3) How can you encourage someone else with what you have learned today?