What Faith Looks Like on an Ordinary Thursday

By: Sarah Rudd

When we imagine great faith, our minds often drift to mountaintop moments- the miracle, the breakthrough, the answered prayer that leaves everyone speechless. We picture Esther standing before the king, Deborah leading a nation, or Mary saying yes to God's extraordinary plan. 

But most of our lives aren't lived in those moments. They are lived on ordinary Thursdays. 

The alarm rings. Breakfast needs to be made. Pets need to be fed and walked. Laundry Piles up. Emails and calls demand attention. Children need rides. Elderly parents need care. Dinner has to appear on the table. Somewhere in the middle of it all, we wonder if anything we're doing really matters. 

It does. 

The Bible reminds us that faith is not measured only by dramatic acts but by daily faithfulness. Jesus spent thirty years in relative obscurity before His public ministry began. Those years mattered. They prepared Him for the work ahead. Likewise, our unseen acts of obedience are never unnoticed by God. 

Faith on an ordinary Thursday looks different than it does on Easter or Christmas. It looks like choosing patience when your toddler has a meltdown for the third time before 9:00am. It looks like praying for your husband before he leaves for work, even when you're frustrated. It looks like opening your Bible for ten quiet minutes instead of scrolling on your phone. It looks like sending an encouraging text to a friend the Holy Spirit brings to mind. It looks like forgiving someone who may never apologize. It looks like serving your family with love when no one says thank you. 

None of these moments will likely make headlines. Yet heaven sees every one of them. 

Paul wrote in Galatians 6:9, "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up." The key isn't spectacular faith once in a while. It's steadfast faith day after day. 

The enemy loves to convince us that if our lives don't feel extraordinary, they aren't significant. But God specializes in using ordinary people who simply keep saying "yes." Every meal prepared with love. Every whispered prayer. Every choice to trust instead of worry. Every act of kindness no one else notices. These are the threads God weaves into a beautiful testimony of faith.

Never underestimate what God is accomplishing through your ordinary obedience. While you are folding towels, driving carpool, caring for aging parents, working your job, studying for school, or quietly serving your church, He is shaping your character, strengthening your faith, and often using your example to encourage others in ways you'll never fully know. 

Perhaps today isn't marked by a miracle. Perhaps it is just a Thursday. But if you choose to trust God, love people well, and remain faithful in the small things, then today is holy ground. 

So take heart, sister! 

God is just as present in your ordinary Thursday as He is in your greatest victory. He walks beside you in the routines, hears every whispered prayer, and delights in every quiet act of faith. Keep showing up. Keep trusting. Keep obeying. 

Because ordinary Thursdays, lived with ordinary faith, become the very stories that reveal God's faithfulness. 

Reflection Question: What ordinary acts of faith is God inviting you to embrace today?   

Don't Let Beauty Pass You By

By: Jenifer Metzger

The heavens declare the glory of God, and

the expanse proclaims the work of His hands.

Psalm 19:1 CSB

Several years ago my husband and started taking weekends at the lake -and by weekend I mean Friday afternoon through Saturday evening. During our time away, we rarely turn the TV on, and when we do it is for a short time to enjoy a show together. We mostly stay off of our phones, even leave our phones behind while we go on walks or enjoy outside.

We spend a lot of time outdoors -we go on walks, lay in the grass, sway in the hammock, watch the clouds float by, listen to the whistle of the birds, and talk. And every moment of it is wonderful.

This day in age, we have become people who continually need screens in front of us. We aren't comfortable unless a phone is in our hands. And we would never dare leave our home without a phone! We've also become people who always need something to do. We have to be entertained at every turn. We can watch movies and TV shows from our phone, we have endless thirty-second videos at the swipe of a finger, and find amusement from countless memes and stories. All in the palm of our hand at any moment of the day. We even watch TV while watching videos on our phones!

Stop for a moment and think back. When is the last time you put all screens away and just enjoyed nature or the company of a loved one or friend? When is the last time you sat on the porch and watched the clouds? When is the last time you took a walk, not for exercise but to just go for a walk?

God created this big, beautiful world for us. Every day He brings the sun up with a beautiful sunrise and closes the day with a sunset. Every day we have trees to sway with the breeze. We have flowers, clouds, birds, butterflies, water sources, stars, and so many more wonderous things. Things that we are ignoring because too often our faces are down in our devices. God's beauty is passing us by!

I remember once at the lake, I was headed out for a walk and found myself going to grab my phone, after all there might be a beautiful tree, fluffy clouds, or a deer grazing that I must have a picture of! As I picked up my phone, the thought ran through my head, do I really need to document every moment? I decided that no, I don't have to document every moment, instead I can live it. It's wonderful to be able to take pictures or videos at any time, but it's just as wonderful -even more so- to look at creation without a lens in between you and the beauty. To experience it.

I want to encourage you, be intentional about setting aside time every day to put your screens away and enjoy the gifts from our Creator. Go on a walk, find a new park in your area, sit at a lake and listen to the water lapping, sit on your front porch, lay with your kids or grandkids in the grass and look for shapes in the clouds, place a bird feed and watch the birds enjoy their treats, have an actual face to face conversation with your spouse, there are so many things you can do off screen that let you see the beauty of the world.

His works are countless, but they are also gifts to us. So let's enjoy the gift of beauty God has given us in His creation.

How countless are Your works, Lord!

In wisdom You have made them all;

the earth is full of Your creatures.

Here is the sea, vast and wide,

teeming with creatures beyond number—

living things both large and small.

Psalm 104:24-25 CSB

Discussion:
1. When was the last time you put screens away and enjoyed nature?
2. Are you comfortable with being "bored"?

Come & Draw Near

 By: Joanne Viola

 

Eight weeks ago now I had an incident where my hand and our hedge cutter had a meeting. It has been a most unexpected and challenging journey still requiring weekly visits to the occupational therapist and monthly to the orthopedic.

Somewhere along my journey, it may have been when it was “National Talk to People in the Elevator Day”, I decided to start talking to people each time I went,

Last week on the drive down I had worship music blasting one of my favorite CD’s. The lyrics were encouraging to my circumstances as mending and healing are my deepest desire.

“I come broken to be mended
I come wounded to be healed
I come desperate to be rescued
I come empty to be filled
I come guilty to be pardoned
By the blood of Christ the Lamb
And I’m welcomed with open arms
Praise God, just as I am.”

(Just As I Am – Songwriters: David E. Moffitt / Sue C. Smith / Travis Cottrell)

 

Encouraged and feeling optimistic, I stepped onto the elevator. In a few seconds, a man came pushing his wife in a wheel chair and another man stepped in.

The woman in the wheel chair remarked she was glad I had improved and was walking well. At that point, I thanked her but showed her my hand.

She shared improvement seems so slow and take a long time. She was discouraged with the process, remarking we are all there for the same purpose.

It was then the other man stated, “We are all here because we are falling apart.”

Stunned by his statement, albeit true, I said, “I respectfully disagree with you sir. We are here to fall back together. To be mended.”

The woman in the wheelchair spoke next, “I like that and am going to remember those words each time I come.”

Having just completed the Bible Study, “Jesus is Better – A Study of the Book of Hebrews“, my heart was full with the realization Jesus is everything.

On days when life feels challenging and perhaps unbearable, Jesus bids us to come to Him.

“Therefore let us draw near with confidence to the throne of grace, 
so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.” 
(Hebrews 4:16, NASB)

We come when broken. We come when wounded. We come when desperate. We come when empty. We come when guilty. We come when needy.

 

"Whatever hurdles, obstacles, or trials come, we keep our eyes on Jesus in order to cross the finish line.”

(from Jesus is Better, by The Daily Grace Co., page 194)

 

Wherever life may find you today,
Jesus bids us “Come”,
for there we will find His grace and mercy.

 

 

 

Reflection: 
We all need the reminder to “Come and draw near” at times. What keeps us from drawing near? What can we do to draw near more quickly?

 

Image by reenablack from Pixabay

 

 

 

 

An Intentional Prayer Life

By: Grace Metzger 

Devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful. 

Colossians 4:2

Recently I saw a TikTok about a movie I saw years ago and it prompted me to try to rewatch. The War Room was an amazing movie about building a strong prayer life and watching it would change your life. I love the movie, but every time I watch it I start to think, is my prayer life as strong as it should be?

And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests.
 With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the Lord’s people.

Ephesians 6:18

Sure, I pray for my meals, I pray at church, and I even pray when I see an accident on the road. But am I truly praying on all occasions? Am I lifting my requests to God or am I simply doing this out of habit? Doing things in my walk with God out of habit is probably one of my biggest struggles. I grew up in a very Christian household, with parents who taught me to pray for every meal. It's not even something I have to think about. But what ends up happening to me is I get into a habit and I never actually use my prayers to grow my relationship with God. I'm not praying for Him to help me with my struggles, I'm not praying in thanksgiving. I am simply praying because it's something that I'm supposed to be doing.

Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition,

with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which

 transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Philippians 4:6-7

There are more benefits to prayer then I can even list off. I challenged myself the last few weeks to spend time in intentional prayer with God, even if it's a five minutes while I'm driving to work. I noticed a big difference in my life from just that, from being more patient to feeling more peace. The effects it's had on my life have been big! 

I challenge you this week to spend some intentional time with God, start with five minutes a day. If you can spend hours on social media then I know you can find five minutes a day to spend in prayer. But spend a week in prayer and then come back to take note of what effects you're seeing from it. Has it changed the way you're approaching issues? Are you in a more peaceful mindset? Have any of your needs or the needs of those you prayed about been answered? Whatever the change might be, take a note of what changes you see and how it can improve your life!

Discussion Question:

What has helped in your prayer life in the past?

29 Things I've Learned About Marriage in 29 Years of Marriage

By: Jenifer Metzger

Today my husband and I celebrate our 29th wedding anniversary. 29 years. Wow! In some ways it feels like it has been forever, as though he has literally been in my life forever. In other ways I cannot believe it has already been 29 years.

Has it been an easy 29 years? Absolutely not. Marriage is like a roller coaster, there are many ups and many downs. But there are a few things I have learned in 29 years of being a wife.

29 things I've learned about marriage in 29 years of marriage, in no particular order:

1. Make a commitment now that divorce is never an option. (This is not the case if abuse is happening. If you are in an abusive relationship, seek help from a pastor or trusted friend immediately.)

2. Be a good listener. When talking with your husband, pause what you are doing and give your husband your full attention. Put your phone down, put your book down, pause your TV, pause your game, if it can wait, make it wait and give him eye contact.

3. Be a forgiver. Your marriage will absolutely not survive without forgiveness.

4. Be a helper. No matter who works where or who stays home, you can both be helpers. My husband works and I stay home. Yet, he helps with the dishes and picks up the house when needed, and I always make sure his work clothes are ready and pack his lunch. We have our roles but we help each other.

5. Pray for your spouse and marriage. Pray for his health, mind, emotions, relationships, job, ministries, anything and everything. Pray over your marriage, for forgiveness, kindness, love, time together, again, anything and everything.

6. Pray together. There is power in standing face to face and praying together with your spouse.

7. Be kind. We tend to let the weight of the world drag us down and our husband gets the worst of us. We are tired from work or dealing with the kids, and our frustration spills onto our husband. We need to be intentional with being kind.

8. Never, ever bad mouth your husband to anyone, including your parents or best friend. Never join in on husband bashing, ever. No matter how upset you may be with him, don't bad mouth him.

9. Talk good about him to others. You can make his name great.

10. Be interested in your husband's interests. My husband collects sports cards. I do not. Yet, I go to sports cards shows with him, when he buys and sells cards I look closely at them, and I've learned some of the terminology of the card world. I quickly realized that taking an interest in his cards means a lot to him.

11. Be his biggest cheerleader. No one will cheer your husband on like you can. Celebrate his wins, reward his accomplishments.

12. Even if you are uncomfortable with your body, he loves it so let him look at it. God made men visual and your body is the only one he can Biblically look at, so let him look.

13. Never deprive him of sex. Sexual intimacy in marriage is a must. (1 Corinthians 7:5)

14. Date each other. Dating helps keep your marriage alive. It helps you remember why you married in the first place. It helps remind you that you are more than just dad and mom or roommates. Date weekly if you can, or maybe monthly works better for you. Whatever it is, just date.

15. Go away together. My husband and I only took one weekend trip alone when our kids were growing up and it was wonderful. Once our kids were grown, we took a week long trip together and realized it was something we should have been doing all along. That time away helps you really shut out the world and focus on each other. Maybe you can take a trip every year, maybe every other year works better for you, but take the trip!

16. Never stop getting to know each other. As we age, we change, we evolve. My husband is not the same man at 48 that he was at 19, and I am not the same woman at 46 that I was at 17. We have different interests, different habits. We have to continually get to know each other.

16. Spend a little time each day talking to each other. Life keeps us busy. It can be easy to go all day long and not even connect with each other. Be intentional about talking each day. 

17. Hug him. Every day hug your husband. That physical contact does so much mentally and emotionally.

18. Kiss him. A kiss brings intimacy and connection. Kiss him. Not a quick peck and run, really kiss him.

19. Tell him you love him and why. He needs to know that you love him, but he really needs to know why you love him.

20. Respect him. Even if you do not agree with him, respect him.

21. Show your appreciation. Tell him "thank you" often. Thank you for working hard for our family. Thank you for being present tonight. Thank you for washing the dishes. Thank you for running that errand for me.

22. Take care of yourself. Especially during those years of raising little ones it can be hard to care for ourselves. We get so busy taking care of everyone else that it is easy to forget ourselves. Take care of yourself.

23. Do things your husband likes. My husband really loves when I wear sundresses, so I try to wear sundresses often for him. If he likes when you wear red lipstick, wear it sometimes. If he likes when you light a candle in the bedroom, light it. Try to do things he likes often.

24. Give him space to rest. Sometimes we expect our husband to go, go, go. But he needs rest. Yes, we need rest too, but we often just expect our husband to not need rest. Especially after work, give him space to rest.

25. Greet him at the door. When your husband gets home, whether from work or play, greet him at the door. Let him know you are glad he's home.

26. Laugh together. Life doesn't have to be all serious. Do things that make you laugh together. Watch a show you both enjoy that makes you laugh, play a game, whatever it is just laugh together.

27. Tell him what's wrong. Women are famous for saying, "I'm fine" even when we aren't. And we do this for several reasons. But the truth is, holding it in gets us nowhere. When something is bothering you, tell him. Be gentle and loving about it, but share.

28. Keep your eyes and heart only for him. Never let your eyes wander in any other direction. Never let your heart flutter at anyone other than your husband.

29. Spend time with God. This is for you, but it's also for your marriage. Spend time with God daily. Be in the Word and pray. Your marriage needs it as much as you do.

These 29 things are not all things I've mastered. But they are things I've come to know are true and work hard at. Marriage isn't always easy, but it is a blessing.

To my Jeremy, I love you so deeply and I am so thankful for you. Always & forever.

Discussion:
1. Which of these are ones you need to work on?
2. What are some lessons you've learned in your own marriage?